Flying Phobia Therapy NYC

A different way to resolve
flying phobia — without exposure

A brief explanation of how the Total Reset Method works and why it’s different.

Reset your brain for fearless flying in just
3 sessions

Proven Results

Total Reset resolves flying phobia in overwhelming majority of cases

1-3 sessions

Over 30 years experience leading with excellence.

Easy and Painless

Life changing results in just one to three sessions.
Easy, fast and cost effective.

Case Studies: Total Reset for Aviophobia

Below are case examples based on actual clients, anonymized for privacy. The outcomes reported align with my 30-year clinical observations but should not be assumed as assured results. Outcomes are variable and depend on factors such as the type and intensity of the phobia, personal context, and participation levels in the intervention.

Background: Steve is a financial consultant, in his late 50s, who engaged with us after a period of over two decades without air travel. His fear of flying developed after witnessing the World Trade Center attacks of 9/11 on his way to his office in downtown Manhattan.  This was a profoundly impactful event–he stopped flying and avoided certain areas within the city associated with the trauma, ultimately relocating and terminating his employment. He described missing over 20 years of family events due to the need for air transportation. He had tried conventional talk therapy but the process of unpacking the traumatic details was too distressing. So, he discontinued.

The Total Reset Process: Steve was initially doubtful regarding the potential for any method to be effective after such a prolonged period and prior unsuccessful therapy attempts. We explained how the Total Reset is different in that he didn’t need to relive trauma or to be exposed to something he fears. He was engaged in the dissociated visualization protocol over two sessions, helping his nervous system re-code and reprocess the memory without reactivating its traumatic aspects. Steve reported experiencing a “powerful, silent transition” during the process.

Result: Post-treatment, Steve almost immediately returned to air travel. He described the sensations of flying as calm, grounded, and even peaceful, which was an experience he would never have expected to have on the plane. Once he was on the ground he felt a release, saying “it felt like freedom.”

Follow-up: At two months’ post-intervention, Steve reported ongoing ability to fly without impairment and indicated that the outcome of the transformation surpassed all of his initial expectations

Background: Nicole, a married woman her late 20s, sought assistance after experiencing a personal crisis that resulted in severe relational strain. Her new husband had planned their honeymoon trip to Italy as their first trip abroad together. But several days before their departure date, her fear of flying caused such intense panic that they abandoned the trip. She reported feeling distraught at her inability to accept this gift and fearful of how her phobia might continue to constrain their shared life.

The Total Reset Process: Over a series of three sessions, we went through the Total Reset Protocol. Nicole perceived this method as significantly divergent from her prior expectations; notably, she felt an absence of coercion or forced engagement with her fears. Instead, she described it as a form of guided visualization that constituted a “deep visual rewire” of her response to flying.

Result: Post-treatment, Nicole was able to travel to Italy with her spouse. She expressed that she experienced greater enjoyment from activities such as vespa tours without the anxiety that typically accompanied her travel experiences. She stated that she “forgot to be afraid”.

Follow-up: At one-month follow-up, Nicole reported extreme gratitude for the restoration of her expected life.

Background: Adam is a mid-50s CEO who was at a breaking point when he arrived at therapy. His fear of flying was becoming a major threat to the fintech company he had helped create. He was missing out on international investment deals because he couldn’t travel, and his life was spiraling out of control. The phobia developed over decades, originating in childhood due to familial trauma during travel. Over time it escalated from a minor inconvenience during adolescence to complete avoidance.

Total Reset Process: We conducted three sessions. Adam completed the visualization protocol by addressing the accumulated anxiety present for decades without requiring recall of childhood trauma or analysis of the phobia development.

Result: Post-treatment, Adam achieved international air travel for the first time in roughly a decade. He said he could feel his clarity of thought returning, that he experienced a moment of realization during the third session when it all “clicked”. He was able to resume his business travel, and his company began to regain the ground it lost with “new deals pouring in.”

Follow-up: At three months, Adam was traveling abroad one to two times monthly with no reports of anxiety. He described it as life-changing in terms of occupational and personal development.

Background: Daphne is professional musician, approximately 35 years of age, who reached out due to the detrimental impact of her severe aviophobia on her career. She had been turning away acting gigs, and alienating audiences as a result. This fear was acquired after a stressful incident involving a small commuter aircraft experiencing severe turbulence during adverse weather conditions. She tried exposure therapy before, but it was re traumatizing and not healing. She noted that “just the thought of flying” would cause physical reactions such as increased heart rate and visual impairment.

Total Reset Process: We conducted three sessions. Daphne expressed gratitude that the method did not necessitate her reliving the turbulence event or engaging in graduated exposure to her fear. She described it as feeling like a “soft update to a buggy operating system” — a technical recalibration rather than a painful trauma.

Result: Daphne was able to board an international flight from New York to Paris to participate in a concert. She stated that she felt secure enough to sleep throughout the majority of the flight, which was a stark departure from her prior rejection of air travel.

Follow-up: Two months post-treatment, Daphne reported ongoing performance scheduling nationwide and expressed a subjective experience of the phobia no longer being an integral aspect of her persona.

Background: Jake is a tech entrepreneur in his late 30s who presented with a history of claustrophobic anxiety characterized by mild discomfort that escalated to aviophobia following the COVID-19 pandemic. It became a major occupational impediment for him when his startup necessitated his attendance at investor meetings nationwide and Henry became so anxious that he could not even enter the jet bridge. His avoidance was leading to negative perceptions and lost potential revenue during a pivotal growth phase for his enterprise.

Total Reset Process: We went through 3 sessions. It was impressive for Jake that it didn’t have to be about talking or re-experiencing anxious moments. He characterized it as focused and rapid rather than prolonged conversational therapy as he had expected. Post-second session, he reported feeling notably different.

Result: After the second consultation, Henry made a flight reservation. Following the third session, he made that flight without medication or alternative options. He left the plane experiencing a sensation of liberation that persisted well after disembarkation — an anxiety that had previously seemed insurmountable had simply evaporated.

Follow-up: During follow-up, Jake was frequently traveling for business purposes, and the company had regained its momentum, with Jake able to participate in key meetings in person.

Background: Jenny is a mid-40s banking executive who experienced a flight-related medical emergency over ten years prior, resulting in the development of a specific flight phobia. At first, she thought that over time her reaction with dissipate. But in reality, she found that just thinking about getting on a plane triggered feelings “disgust” and “anxiety”. She started to avoid business trips, which began removing significant opportunities to advance her career. She reported feeling ashamed of the restriction and like she losing part of her life.

Total Reset Process: We conducted three sessions. The process involved her nervous system disassociating the sensation of flight with the nausea and anxiety she previously encountered.

Result: Post-treatment, Jenny experienced her initial flight without anxiety or physical discomfort. She reported experiencing a sensation of her nervous system “finally releasing” from the prior habitual response. She said “I was back to my self” and felt “free again” to travel for business when she needed to and for pleasure when she wanted to.

Follow-up: During follow-up call, Jenny reported frequent work-related travel and expressed increased confidence prior to each flight. She noted that her increased confidence with flying had grown into overall better self-confidence in general.

These are examples of the common results from the Total Reset program. If you have aviophobia and want to see if this method will work, reach out to me for a free consultation

Success reflects clinical observations over 30 years of practice. Individual results vary based on factors including the nature and duration of the phobia and engagement in the treatment process.

How To Get Started

STEP 1

Complimentary Strategy Call

Chat with Dr. Bob in a free strategy call to see if the program is right for you. Get answers to your questions and discuss your goals. If it’s a good fit, decide when to book your first appointment.

STEP 2

Complete Intake Application

If you choose the program, you’ll receive a secure link to complete and sign intake, policies, and consent documents. This process takes 15-20 minutes.

STEP 3

Book Your First Appointment

After your application is accepted, we’ll contact you to schedule your first appointment within 2-3 days. Dr. Bob will explain the procedure, answer your questions, and outline the steps of the resolution method.

STEP 4

Follow-Up Appointments

Most cases are resolved in 2-3 sessions. You’ll undergo the procedure, and tests will ensure the phobia is resolved. A follow-up form is sent 2-3 weeks later to confirm your success.

Resetting the experience of flying to feel safe made it so Nicole could go on her honeymoon.

Client Video Testimonials (Click to Watch)

Sonia talks about eliminating a 30+ year phobia in 2 sessions.
CEO Adam talks about how the Reset gave allowed him to travel internationally again.
Jake on how Total Reset freed him from his phobia & helped with his business.
Michael on pitching to VCs in Aspen after Dr. Bob’s reset.
Renata felt she had a new brain after Dr. Bob’s reset.
Sarah got over aviophobia in 2 sessions.
Henry cleared longstanding trauma in 2 sessions.
Steve resolved his 9/11–linked flight phobia.
Suda used Total Reset to resolve trauma and grief.
Jenny talks about how Total Reset gave her life back.
Jerry explains how Total Reset gave him a massive ROI.
Ally resumed performing after Total Reset resolved her flying glitch.

Real results from people who overcame their fear of flying with Dr. Bob’s Total Reset Method.

For many years I used to schedule company meetings to avoid flights which in turn meant we lost out on international opportunities. Dr. Bob’s Total Reset Method was a breeze, almost as if I was just retraining my thought process without fear or pressure. Now I don’t give it a second thought when I fly cross country — my team actually think I am making up for all the flights I used to miss.
JR
CEO, Manhattan Tech Firm
I would pretend to be ill in order to get out of flying to Hong Kong although my job required me to be there in person for key deals. The Dr. Bob sessions were very comfortable and left me feeling light headed after each one. I flew to Singapore last week and slept through the flight which was a first for me.
SL
Managing Director, Investment Bank
I had built a real estate portfolio all across the U.S. but I always traveled by train or car, staying away from planes. Within two sessions my anxiety had gone down to almost nothing — it was like someone had turned a switch. Now I am able to visit properties in other states within hours and I feel like I can do anything.
DM
Entrepreneur & Real Estate Investor
A bad flight left me not able to get on a plane for over a decade. Dr. Bob’s technique was very gentle, quick and out of the ordinary for what I had tried before. Last month I flew to London for a major investor summit and I felt very at ease.
DM
Entrepreneur & Real Estate Investor
A single bumpy flight kept me from getting on a plane for 12 years. Gentle, quick, and unlike anything I had done before, Dr. Bob’s technique was totally effective. I was in London for a full investor summit last month, and I felt absolutely calm.
AW
Hedge Fund Manager
I was grounded for very many years and had to miss out on international fashion weeks that really launched the whole field for me. The Total Reset Method returned to me the calm that I was sure I had lost forever. I walked to an airport for Milan last week filled with excitement and not anxiety. That sounds like a miracle for me.
JK
Co-Founder, Luxury Fashion Brand
Even a short flight from New York to Boston would paralyze my panic. Dr. Bob's method uprooted that fear without having to bring back bad memories. First thing I do now is pack for a quick flight and weekend trip.
OC
Wall Street Executive
My startup almost went under because I refused to go pitch investors on the West Coast in person. Very focused, professional sessions, surprisingly easy. Now, I fly to San Francisco monthly, no meds, no fear.
MP
Founder, Fintech Startup
Family vacations had to be road trips because I refused to fly. Within just two sessions, Dr. Bob and his approach made me feel safe again. The kids were super excited when at last we went all the way by plane to Disney World.
EB
Wealth Advisor
I lost a seven-figure client because I refused to fly out for a personal meeting. Dr. Bob’s program was the missing piece of my puzzle that nothing else ever seemed to fix. Last month I flew out to a client’s office and confidently closed a $12M deal.
WD
Private Equity Partner
I could never go to gallery openings abroad because I’d panic just booking the tickets. Total Reset was more like a mental spa treatment than therapy. Now I breeze through art fairs in Paris and London.
VS
Art Collector & Philanthropist
I resisted taking cases that counted on travel for my show of gall, thereby also retarding career growth. Dr. Bob’s technique rewired my response to flying in three weeks. I just got back from a big case in Chicago — easiest trip ever!
DH
High-Stakes Corporate Attorney
Opening my third overseas resort was delayed for years on account of my flight phobia. The minute I started working with Dr. Bob, confidence seeped into my being. I now freely fly internationally alongside my crew.
IT
Luxury Hospitality Owner
Even VIP charter flights would put me into an adrenaline rush of anxiety, which kept me earthbound for so many years. The process was swift and somehow very relaxing. Now, I go on coast-to-coast media deals as if I've been doing this my entire life.
MV
Media Executive
My breaking point was missing a partner retreat in the Caribbean. Dr. Bob's method worked when nothing else had for the past 15 years. I now embark on flights with excitement instead of fear.
CR
Venture Capital Partner
I once drove 12 hours to Florida to avoid a 2-hour flight. The Total Reset Method restored my time and peace of mind. Flying is now as normal as catching a cab uptown.
AN
Real Estate Developer
I've missed family holidays outside the country because I couldn't face the fear of takeoff. The fear was entirely gone after just three sessions. Now, I am booking our very first European holiday together after so many years.
NG
Family Member
I refused an international TV show, saying I just couldn't handle the flights. Dr. Bob's method really did change my life, and it was shockingly fast. I am now traveling between NYC, Paris, and Tokyo for expanding restaurant businesses.
CF
Celebrity Chef & Restaurateur
I spent years pretending it was because I was ‘too busy’ to deal with flying. Dr. Bob made it easy to finally face and erase that fear. I took two flights this week without a single anxious thought.
CJ
Investment Strategist
Raising funds on an international scale was impossible with flight anxiety. Within almost three sessions, it was like the brain completely forgot about the fear. I just flew to Zurich to present on the investor roadshow with success.
EB
Biotech CEO
Been missing international design competitions because of not boarding planes. Dr. Bob's reset was not just effective, but empowerment in itself. Last week, I fearlessly flew to Paris for a new project.
AL
Renowned Architect
I have been sending associates for years to international conferences owing to this fear. After one session, I knew this was different, and it was fast. I now look forward to trips that once filled me with fear.
BA
Angel Investor
Film fests in other lands were a no-go as my fear kept me on the ground. Dr. Bob's Total Reset wiped out years of fright in just some hours. I’ve flown twice this month and liked each bit.
MW
Film Producer

Real success stories from people who overcame their fear of fying.

Are You Struggling with These Issues?

Just thinking about flying sends you into a spiral of intense fear and panic, making everyday tasks seem impossible. This overwhelming anxiety can dominate your life, leaving you feeling trapped and powerless, unable to escape the constant dread. You avoid travel plans and make excuses, missing out on life’s opportunities and adventures.

Your fear of flying triggers severe physical symptoms such as heart palpitations, excessive sweating, nausea, and dizziness. These reactions not only make flying unbearable but also cause ongoing health issues, impacting your day-to-day well-being. The stress takes a toll on your body, leaving you exhausted and anxious long before you even step onto a plane.

The thought of losing control during a flight terrifies you, causing paralyzing anxiety. This fear can lead to panic attacks, making you feel helpless and vulnerable every time you think about boarding a plane. The fear of an uncontrollable situation in the air keeps you grounded, limiting your freedom and autonomy.

Your phobia stops you from traveling, affecting your professional life and preventing you from enjoying vacations with family. This restriction limits your career growth, strains your relationships, and robs you of valuable experiences and memories. Important business opportunities and cherished family moments slip away as you remain stuck, unable to overcome your fear.

Living with a flying phobia causes significant emotional distress, making you feel like a failure for not overcoming this fear. These feelings of inadequacy and helplessness can erode your self-esteem and negatively impact your overall quality of life. The constant battle with your phobia leaves you emotionally drained, frustrated, and disconnected from your goals and desires.

When flying fear quietly starts limiting your life

Many successful professionals don’t realize how avoidance shapes choices until it’s already happening.

Severe incidents can embed responses in the nervous system — even long after they occur.

My Promise to You

I’m going to remove your flying phobia permanently – and you’ll never have it again.

This shortcut requires almost no talking and is done in complete comfort.

My Promise to You

I will show you how to quickly and easily escape your flying phobia with the RE-STORE Method, so you will always have a toolkit to conquer flight anxiety.
This shortcut requires almost no talking and is done in complete comfort. You’ll learn techniques and resources to ensure permanent change and handle any future irrational fears.

With the Total Reset Method, You Will Have

Freedom from the fear of flying.

Confidence to travel anywhere.

Tools to turn off irrational fears while staying safe.

Rest and arrive refreshed on flights.

Control over your emotions to enjoy life more.

Focus on intimacy with your partner during trips.

Fun on vacations without the stress of traveling.

Confidence, not fear, when taking off and landing.

Does This Really Work?

How I use Virtual Reality to PROVE it works!

  • We will use VR briefly to test and measure how fearful you feel when flying. 
  • Then we remove the VR headset and do the Flying Phobia Total Reset Method. 
  • Finally, the VR headset goes back on to test and measure the results and help you to feel completely comfortable with flying. 

Flying Phobia Myths & Misconception

Things that Don't Work

While they may temporarily help manage physiological symptoms of fear for some people who have practiced them, they do not fix or change the wiring of a phobia. If you have experienced the terrifying feeling of a panic attack, you know intuitively you and your body feel out of control and not amenable to these techniques, unless you’ve had years of practice. this still won’t cure a phobia, which is a conditioned response to a specific stimulus. 

Phobias live in the emotional part of the brain (Amygdala), not the cognitive part (Prefrontal Cortex). Using a cognitive approach is like removing a brain tumor starting at the elbow. It’s a long way away and not the most effective way to get there.

Make it worse because they teach the brain that there is something to fear and risks dependency. Research shows that repeated use heightens sensitivity to phobic stimuli. The fear response can generalize to other situations when not on the medication due to this heightened sensitivity. 

Flying Phobia Myths

If it only took you one or two experiences to learn flying phobia, why can’t it take one or two experiences to  unlearn it using reverse conditioning? 

Narrative therapies and Exposure only puts you and your brain back in the state you have been avoiding because it is so noxious and uncomfortable. It’s like having surgery while fully awake and without anesthesia. Why go through that when there is proven better method like Total Reset, which bypasses the cognitive and language centers of the brain.

If you’ve had a phobia for any length of time, avoiding the whole issue only makes it worse over time because the brain concludes there must be a good reason you have avoided it, thus reinforcing the idea that there is something dangerous to avoid. 

Cost to Not Fix This:

Financial:

Spending on ineffective therapies, lost opportunities.

Emotional:

Feeling restricted and like a failure.

Relational:

Impact on relationships and family.

Lifestyle:

Restrictions on activities.

Health:

Long-term health impact.

Total Reset Method

By following these five steps you’ll have the confidence to travel anywhere with tools that help turn off irrational fears while keeping you safe. Enjoy relaxation on flights, allowing you to sleep and arrive rested. Gain control over your emotions to enhance your enjoyment of life.

“This is a simple but powerful 5-step process that can be done in 2-3 sessions”

Phobia Erasure Movie

Eliminates 80-100% of the phobic response in 30 mins.

Associative Retraining

Uses guided imagery to feel safe flying.

Rational Mind Strengthening

Eliminates fears of fear and panic.

Knowledge Transfer

Basic principles of flight.

Fool Proof Anxiety Destroyers

Quick techniques to manage anxiety in any situation.

Good News

You don’t have to stay stuck with unnecessary fears. Gain freedom to build your best
life, enjoy quality time with loved ones, and live without phobia.

I Want To Help You Fix This:

You have two options:

  1. Figure it out yourself, wasting time and money.
  2. Get help from an expert who can fast-track your success.

How I Can Help:

I’ve set aside time to speak with you personally about applying this system to your life. The call is free, and you’ll gain clarity on overcoming your flying fears. If it’s a good fit, you might become one of my exclusive clients.

If We Work Together:

  1. You will overcome flying phobia without exposure or talk therapy.
  2. You will have a strategy for anxiety elimination without years of therapy.
  3. You will be free to travel for business, make deals, and close sales.
  4. You will enjoy travel without unnecessary fears.